When two people love each other, there are no barriers that can stop the feeling that connects them. But if you want to ever have a woman who truly desires you and has a deep emotional connection for the long-term, you need more than that. They all squirm a bit with discomfort. When it comes to women his age, they will ask for bigger things. I usual date guys around my age bracket. Sometimes older men prefer younger girls to get over their divorces.
My sense of style has improved, because my years of chasing children are complete though I can still reproduce — my focus is more on me than on anybody else. Those few who thinks I ought to waste away and croak have no affect in how I feel about myself and my life. Both the above reasons prove that women tend to feel much more comfortable and secure with an older partner. This business about what is socially acceptable or not is a bunch of baloney. He also added that while girls adore a man with a past, they are more likely to prefer one with a present to settle down with.
Some of the best guys I know with women are not traditionally attractive or wealthy. So he does not care if she has some issues with her boss or sometimes cannot take care of simple tasks. Men are visual creatures Men are more visually stimulated than women. On second place, older men go crazy especially on dating sites, they want to make up for all the years they stayed married. Most of them still have hair on their heads which may sound funny, but is a huge turn-on for older women. Marriage can get catastrophic sometimes. If the older man is in love with an older woman his age, she will ask for the moon and not ordinary things within his reach.
Mind you I am not talking intimate friends, but we hang out together constantly. I think most guys are both realistic and practical, I think most guys like to stay in their comfort zone and be with someone who shares their own values and views on life, regardless of age, For my opinion, girls are far better to marry a guy several years older. I guess I bought into the idea that it is only men who have younger partners. This happens at all stages of a person's life and not just in relationships where the woman is the older one. More often than not, the older man is blindsided when the younger girl leaves. This is one reason why famous older guys can get away with dating younger women much more easily. Women like the flexibility and sense of adventure of their more spontaneous, younger companions; while the younger men like the maturity and experience of the women.
That the more vulnerable I am the more connections I make, when I act like everything is perfect or start to brag about my career etc. I had experienced that feeling only once before and I was very aware of when and how it had happened and I was certain it was happening again, with him. We got very lucky and found love. He is extremely smart, somewhat nerdy but great to be around, dates much, much younger women and seems really happy. Lots of people whose partners are of same or similar age break up because love is either gone, they fell for someone else, or they simply got bored with each other. We have so much in common, same musical taste, food, love for fast cars, same type of movies etc.
Proulx, if men ostentatiously flaunt at an older age, there is certainly something in the genes which will attract younger women to older men. I am 43 and make the most connections with women that are 25- 35. Perhaps I have this personal self-preservation alone, but I know for sure, the reality of older men seemingly being massed by younger women is financial stability, for a temporary contract, then the debt is paid off. She is confident enough to make the first move. We have a lot in common and ate going to go for it. Did you consciously choose to like those qualities throughout your life? Such women will torture the poor man by demanding a huge portion of his estate. Just like the gay marriage debate… How about you shut the hell up about what two consenting adults do if it makes them happy? Nature gifts young women with the power of a sex appeal that peaks early and falls off more quickly.
I dated recently with 22 year old girl — at first it was lots of fun, but after a couple of dates I got bored. I just feel I have more in common with younger women. I like what I like and if she is consenting, like you indicated. They may go after what they want in certain areas of their life, in certain situations, or with certain people. To her shock and bemusement, there was a new term to describe what she had been doing most of her life — dating younger men. All relationships are bound for failure if there is no respect or trust. What you see in magazines? It is rare to see young girls date a broke old man.
We both assure everybody that its just best friends snd nothing else. But I felt repulsed by their advances considering that the potential for a different relationship was there, and considering that I was caught totally off-guard by what I thought were friendships. In such times, older men feel vulnerable and need to reclaim their sexual prowess. I mean, I live in a country where most people are very traditional in that matter. Because I date a guy 1 year older than me.
But that was until he told me his age. Only flag lists that clearly need our attention. My husband is 22 years older and we have a wonderful marriage and 2 children. We have been dated for a year. Examples in Hollywood: Eva Mendes is six years older than Ryan Gosling.