Although many people choose to not talk about it, and if they do, they talk in hush tones, sharing wives is becoming more accepted. As far as I am concerned, all you need in a are and and and. We finally ended up hooking up with the first guy in a neutral city after meeting, he was from somewhere else and I learned that I had to lay out exactly what I wanted to see. The sooner wife sharing becomes an accepted norm, the better for everyone. This has been a part of my fiber since college. I also agree with Nathan and others who imply that actually carrying out a fantasy changes the equation in ways not often anticipated.
In the end her decision it what matters but it would be cool if she agree with me on this. Now we share all the pics he takes of me on my own personal site and i love it. So, if all the three adults are ok with an act that is not gonna harm anyone then why are we acting as if he has asked us to accept the sins of whole world upon ourselves and let all others be free of all sins. This is actually a much more common occurrence than is often realized. Ok Am I the only one who finds this thought process slightly bizarre.
I find that many of the people not all that demonize it have cheated. Also beware of one thing: Folks who act out role-specific fantasies are almost always disappointed. After that we tried again and we found someone who was a better fit, she liked him pretty well and he was quite willing to play the role the way I wanted so I got my fill. To be fair he and i were also fucking and we had some great 3-sums. As for my friend we have known each other for over 10 years, and he has enough integrity not to try and steal her away, he just wants to get laid, and since in the past he gave me the opportunity I feel as though he should get one in return. It would be interesting to explore were I your therapist what feelings and desires come up for you as you imagine these circumstances; do you feel special because your wife plays with others but comes home to you? That what turn me on is that this is what turns him on seeing me taken by someone else. It's nice because she is often over in the evenings and on weekends and there is a great vibe between all four of us really.
We are not talking about sex with children. . We then got dressed and prepared to meet her husband at a hotel we had booked the excitement was electric as we drove to the hotel. Unfortunately they had to be back home kids so we got dressed ordered some food ate and parted company. If kids were involve then the doors would have to be lock all the times if it happens.
I knew watching another man pleasure my woman would make me way too jealous. We discussed it and after several months of going back and forth we decided to give it a try, I'd try and screen the potential guys and she had the final say. Also, I've always wondered why is it considered acceptable if a woman is bisexual and that if a man has any interest in another guy he's labelled as gay? It is possible to have a sound relationship while doing this, but you have to want it badly. I often wonder if guys like you have any clue how foolish you look to others. I jerked off watching most of the time and filmed them. She loves me as I love her.
Now i am single again. There is no way on earth you can have a sound relationship and a threesome at the same time unless you were just only friends. Personally if I had a gf who was flashing her cunny to my friends I would drop her like a bad habit. I mean, you would not want to make the misses angry, would you? The problem, then, in my view and this is only my view , is that it begins to limit our spontaneity and creativity in the actual relationship. There will be many women out there who would enjoy having the lifestyle you want, but you may not find the same level of loving relationship again. Without it, you could end up hurting each other. That is not something my husband is interested in because he is not sexually interested in men.
It sounds like you are filling a hole and when she finds the right guy she will be moving on. This lasted for a while. What a strange fantasy this is to me and the potential for this all to go so wrong seems crazy high. I want to preserve what we have, but at the same time I don't know if I can or should stay in a relationship where my most animalistic, biological desires are not fully satisfied. What do you do next? I also share mine as well.
I cant imagine playing it out in real life though! I was wondering if any of you had experience or knew someone who was into open relationships. He had been watching us all evening. We never went to bed angry, and she always told me she loved me when I woke up in the morning. That's the wonderful thing about our marriage and about many other people's marriages, I hope. I have live sexual dissatisfied for years. Society always portrays that a man should stick to one wife. Dudes like you need to be alone….
I have shared my wife with my best friend. I can only see the advantage of choosing a friend to be that they might be a 'safer' option coz u already know them. I know people in open marriages who explore all sorts of permutations, including poly-fidelitous v's of three and tribes or ten or more. It is who I am. No good, loving, faithful woman deserves that kind of pain and drama— nor the health risk associated with high risk sex, she should be with a mentally stable, normal and loyal man who will reciprocate her love.