What are the positive effects? My issue is that it is a drug and I hate seeing how it changes him when he takes it. He gets fronted, or his friends give him some for free or he flirts with his dealer. Unfortunately, smoking can have both of these effects. He knows and has admitted it's an addiction, he smokes a couple of times a week and is trying to cut back to once a week last I knew, I never smell weed on him or see any paraphernalia and I know he doesn't smoke when I'm coming over or before we skype. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. I blame myself for what goes on.
There is always something annoying about everyone, whatever it may be. Once you believe you are worth ore you'll leave. If he was smoking all the time but was also a nervous anxious wreck then that's not okay. Most people have serious flaws, and some experts suggest that having dealbreakers is not really conducive to happiness. I have shared my concerns since t is not legal in our area. As a cop you'll be expected to use sound judgment.
How possible it is for him to go back to it especially that it will be legalized soon. I have been in my relationship for 6 years now, 1year living together. Here's how you can find a group near you: Just don't let this consume months or years of your life. Maybe I am a horrible, shitty, untrustworthy person. He is vaping marijuana oil and smoking the e cig. Have you ever known me to take things to an inappropriately personal level? Back in the city about 3 months later my anxiety started acting up again and again he offered to quit to help lessen that, so he did. It affects her because it does.
My kids want to call him dad he is so involved with them like his own! Maybe I just want to throw in the towel. Is it smoking one bowl per time, on two different occasions? He then asked for some time alone, I was still clingy ok, so I spent the week at home. Ariel, Your story is very similar to mine. I hope that she was able to achieve her education, and live live, and experiences fun and new and healthy things. Only make promises on the things you really intend to do. Don't worry, you won't die from weed. I have to quit this relationship cold turkey and find my own happiness back.
This was my house, before he moved in. The one thing that is clear here is that weed is more important to your husband than you are at this point. I adore my boyfriend, but don't like how he shoplifts small items frequently. Does weed make sex mind-blowing or forgettable? Some people can wake up and do whatever drug of choice they prefer and still carry on with their everyday life. I never bring up the weed thing. He used to leave if we fought and I wouldnt hear from him for hours.
Baby starts daycare on monday But the thing that gets me is. However, you cannot force someone to quit, and the decision to do so is ultimately his responsibility. I mean, it is physically possible for someone to make a big change following a wedding. We disagree on the rest. I felt so hurt but I let it go. It became such a ritual for him and his friends and I felt so hurt. Thats 10x worse but you will probably be fine with that because its legal and socially acceptable.
I have tried so many ways and it is never acceptable to him and I am just mad. Fast forward a year and hes just now admitting after numerous arguements that he does infact have an addiction. Think if you would want to continue with same relationship if acted the same without the weed, my advise that should also take. These small victories can increase confidence. I read the first post and then I discovered all those comments. It is good she is seeking advice now before it becomes a bigger issue. It can be difficult to find the right balance between encouraging your boyfriend to quit and behaving in a way that he may perceive as taking away his choices.
She vowed to never do it again but at this point my trust for her, regarding weed, just has been lost. First off, you have no right to tell him what to do. When she told me, I felt the same pain and broke down. His mistake was promising this. But it has simply never been a part of the relationship that the two of us have been cultivating; that is, the does not play a role in our day-to-day lives at all. When I smoke, I get very relaxed and super horny.