He will appreciate it and you will expand your mind and understand him more. I wonder if inside he resents me? I try even think that it is better then antidepressants, but… I feel about weed anyway the same like You. We are in our early 50s and physically fit as are many of our friends who smoke. Problem 1 - Total Stoner: If one party to the relationship is a deeply and chronically stoned pothead, even a tolerant partner may feel neglected and excluded. God Bless everyone thanks for taking your time in reading this. Im not happy and i know its bc of weed, bad habits.
One of the first questions I ask in a dating scenario is If the woman smokes weed. That is a true compromise. I am in a similar situation. We have been married for 11 years now. I am so tired of arguing about it. You don't remember the act of it as much as the feeling because you are in another state of mind. When you're high, you're relaxed and relaxed sex is good sex.
And giving up weed for a partner is never an easy decision. He has told me numerous times he was only going to do it once in awhile but he gets it every other day. I think you are completely within your right to say that when you get a house together you want for it to be a smoke free zone as it is not just his space anymore and as much as you give him respect and are okay with him smoking with others, he needs to show you the same level of respect by accepting that it is a fair comment to not have it smoked in or around the family home. We had run into to financial difficulties where I was paying the bills out of the little social security I get to get by. I would really like to know how this panned out. It sounds like your boyfriend might be struggling with his own brand.
Why can't your husband smoke pot in the garage outside of the presence of your kids? But, eventually the non-smoker feels the isolation. He has children and I never married or had children. Shame on him and men like him. I felt that we connected better, and were able to really express our love for each other when we were high. I never dream in my live to retire with a marijuana user. Despite this flaw in his judgement, It was his first slip up after going cold turkey and as much as it hurt, what hurt more was the deceit.
There are other ways to live life and I am just too closed-minded to accept this. He gets fronted, or his friends give him some for free or he flirts with his dealer. × Why write a review? So it is more than what he is indicating to me. I would advise you to take the same course. I remember one time she was smoking a joint while I was going down on her, and she said something along the lines of, This is how couples should smoke together. I always thought he will stopped using it when we had our 1st child, but he never did.
But, psychological escape can be addictive. That also ruined my credit. It was always a point of contention. Hell, a few times a month I cross-fade myself. You might accidentally eat a pot brownie. Our marriage is not perfect but it is a work in progress; hopefully that progress will continue to be drug free. A user will consciously or unconsciously invest considerable money.
My wife just started smoking pot daily after 10 years of a drug free marriage she bullied her dying 85 year old mother into getting medical pot for her. However to be honest when we went out it distracted him from it a lot, and so our relationship wasn't based on it. This vicious cycle may continue until the individual ceases to use marijuana. Unlike alcohol i don't feel sick when the kick is over. He's also smoked before work which could cost him his construction job. If your partner is a regular weed smoker and you are worried for their health, try suggesting a healthier alternative. Smoking is also like a ritual of empathy for us.
At first i didnt care. If there are other problems, maybe work on those? Do you ever get nervous? I blame myself for it bc I went to a soccer game rather than being there for her. I mean the other option is to submit and let him do what he wants and be fine with that, but in doing that you wont be happy. But that's simply my ignorant? It's always hard to know when a person is giving you information because they care about you or because they just like to gossip. My girlfriend, for example, has been anxiously waiting to find out if her visa application is approved and my way of showing that I'm sensitive to her stress is by a rolling up a joint.
I do not do drugs due to my profession and I have two small children. Go spend your time being happy instead of disappointed. I have told him I'm worried, but he says he doesn't have a problem with it. It's a lifestyle that you don't mesh with. Meanwhile, his Netflix subscription may contain colorful, trippy films like The Wizard of Oz or 2001: A Space Odyssey, which are infinitely better under the influence of drugs. We are both very productive. Educate yourself about marijuana and its effects.